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Author: Jordan Harbinger with Jason DeFillippo

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Selected by Apple as a "Best of 2018" Podcast. Join Jordan Harbinger with Jason DeFillippo as we get deep into the untapped wisdom of the world’s top performers -- from intelligence operatives to legendary musicians, iconoclastic writers to visionary changemakers. We deconstruct the playbooks of the most successful people on earth -- and learn new strategies, perspectives and insights you can’t find anywhere else. Then, take these practical insights into your own life and live what you listen.
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149: Feedback Friday | How to Find Balance with so Many Irons in the Fire
Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:Are you a square if you think your casual love triangle has devolved into nothing more than a crossed line?Your wedding guest list is getting out of control. How can you maintain the desired intimacy of a smaller gathering and keep the budget in line without offending anyone?If epilepsy keeps you from driving, how can you overcome feeling like a nuisance to your friends and family -- and how do you work around it for potential dates?You're feeling a little overwhelmed from having so many irons in the fire, but you need to keep the momentum going to support your family. What are some healthy ways to regain a sense of balance?How do you calm your mind from acute stress when something happens and you can't stop thinking about it?Some of the hardships you've endured andconquered still embarrass you. How can you own and include them in the story you share with others?Your boss constantly overshares and vents personal issues to you, which is draining and counterproductive. How can you establish appropriate boundaries without causing workplace friction?Due to your best friend's recent string of bad luck, you feel your relationship shifting from an equal footing to a mentor-mentee situation. How can you keep your ego in check to regain balance while still being supportive?Recommendation of the Week: The Clinton AffairHave any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!Tommy John has tailored, fit, and fashionable undershirts, camis, wedgie-free underwear, and more for him and her. Visit tommyjohn.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order!If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance...
148: Erik Aude | Imprisoned in Pakistan for a Crime He Didn't Commit Part Two
Erik Aude (@erikaude) is an actor, stuntman, professional poker player, and the subject of 3 Years in Pakistan: The Erik Aude Story. This is part two of a two-part episode. Make sure to check out part one here! What We Discuss with Erik Aude:How Erik Aude entered one of the world's toughest prisons an innocent man and emerged as a murderer.What processing, being the new curiosity, and solitary confinement are like in an overcrowded Pakistani prison.How you know when you're really in danger in a foreign prison: when they put you on death row for your own protection.How much you should expect to pay a lawyer to defend you from a hanging offense in Pakistan (and how much they'll try to charge you).Life lessons that can only be learned in the school of the hardest knocks from world-infamous hijackers and mass murderers.And much more...Calm is the number one app for meditation and sleep! Want to explore its many benefits? Enjoy an exclusive discount of 25% off a Calm premium subscription by going to calm.com/jordan!Looking to score last-minute hotel deals? HotelTonight has access to unsold inventory from the world's greatest accommodations at a fraction of regular rates. Hit hoteltonight.com and use code JORDANH at checkout for 25 percent off your first booking!Sign up for Level One of Advanced Human Dynamics -- our free networking and relationship development mini course at jordanharbinger.com/levelone!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
147: Erik Aude | Imprisoned in Pakistan for a Crime He Didn't Commit Part One
Erik Aude (@erikaude) is an actor, stuntman, professional poker player, and the subject of 3 Years in Pakistan: The Erik Aude Story. This is part one of a two-part episode. Make sure to check out part two here! What We Discuss with Erik Aude:How an American actor with a successful career gets wrongfully imprisoned in Pakistan for three years.Why Erik's unique history with pain tolerance made him uniquely suited to survive torture and the rigors of prison life.The culture shock an average westerner might expect to experience while visiting Pakistan.What the phrase "physical remand" actually means in Pakistan's justice system.How Erik remains positive and grateful for what he has in spite of the ordeals he's faced -- in Pakistan and at home.And much more...Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens— with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!Are you using the best software for your situation? Capterra knows and makes it easy to discover your best solution fast -- and for free. Visit capterra.com/jordan to find out what you're missing today!Sign up for Level One of Advanced Human Dynamics -- our free networking and relationship development mini course at jordanharbinger.com/levelone!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
146: Feedback Friday | How to Make Introductions Without Getting Burned
Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:Advice for someone trying to transition into a new industry after a long time in their current, unrelated one.Your significant other always wants to shut the party down when all you want to do is go home where it's cozy and quiet. But is there a not-so-nefarious reason you haven't considered?You're paying down a massive college debt you incurred by preparing for a career you don't really like. How can you transit to another field that better suits you without going broke?Even though you're young and in an ideal relationship that already seems headed toward marriage, should an unexpected pregnancy hasten the occasion?When the coping mechanisms you use to help alleviate the burnout of your well-paying, long-term job are not keeping pace with the added stressors of that job, how do you test the waters of alternatives before it's too late?What's the real reason you can't seem to land a promotion at the company where you've worked forever?How do you best ensure an introduction between two mutually beneficial connections in your network doesn't get botched once it's out of your hands and in theirs?Recommendation of the Week: Murder MountainA quick shoutout to The Daily Show's own Trevor Noah!Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.Great protection. Fair prices. Easy to use. SimpliSafe is the right way to protect your home at half the size and double the range -- go to SimpliSafe.com/jordan to learn more!Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy,...
145: Philip McKernan | Why Your Truth Matters and How to Speak It
Philip McKernan (@PhilipMcKernan) is a speaker, filmmaker, and author of One Last Talk: Why Your Truth Matters and How to Speak It and Rich On Paper Poor On Life: 3 Paths To More Meaning (And Money).What We Discuss with Philip McKernan:Do you rarely follow the life advice you'd give -- without hesitation -- to others?Why doing what you're good at isn't always a match for what makes you feel good.How honest vulnerability (not dinner party oversharing) helps you gain insight into what makes you tick and gives your life meaning.Why people travel thousands of miles and pay thousands of dollars for clarity about their own situation they don't actually want.The deep lessons you can learn about yourself in 15 minutes from Philip's One Last Letter exercise.And much more...The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you're skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it's supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!Get two months of Skillshare -- unlimited access to over 18,000 classes in design, business, technology, photography, entrepreneurship, film, writing, and more -- for free at skillshare.com/harbinger!Blinkist gives you access to 2,500+ bestselling nonfiction books, transformed into potent little packs you can listen to or read in just 15 minutes. Try Blinkist Premium free for seven days at blinkist.com/jordan!Need custom graphics, logos, or Web design? Access a community of 600,000+ designers by registering at designcrowd.com/jordan and enjoy up to $100 off with The Jordan Harbinger Show bonus offer!Sign up for Level One of Advanced Human Dynamics -- our free networking and relationship development mini course at jordanharbinger.com/levelone!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
144: Shawn Achor | Why Success and Happiness Aren't Mutually Exclusive
Shawn Achor (@shawnachor) is one of the world's leading experts on the connection between happiness and success, and is the author of Big Potential, The Happiness Advantage, and Before Happiness.What We Discuss with Shawn Achor:Positive Peer Pressure: having great people around you can help make you great (and is an even better predictor of success than qualities like grit and resilience).Why you actually achieve and perform better when you help others operate at their best.Powerful skills that allow you to make others better -- and therefore raise your own potential.How success in personal and professional life really isn't survival of the fittest -- it's survival of the best fit.Practical insight into how you can protect yourself against stress and negativity.And much more...If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens— with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!Avoid trips to the post office with Stamps.com -- The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners can get a four-week trial that includes a digital postal scale and free postage by entering code JORDAN after clicking on the radio microphone at the top of the page here!Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!Sign up for Level One of Advanced Human Dynamics -- our free networking and relationship development mini course at jordanharbinger.com/levelone!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
143: Feedback Friday | How to Learn a New Language and Make It Stick
Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:Our safety tips for a solo woman traveler.Suggestions for understanding, coping with, and supporting a significant other suffering from anxiety.Advice for someone with no finance background or college degree to learn how stocks and investments work.Networking without the happy hour.Why you should get started with the ideas you have for content creation (whether it's podcasting, videos, blogging, or something else) sooner rather than later.Showing support for a loved one who makes poor decisions without enabling their situation.How to learn a new language and make it stick.Recommendation of the Week: American CircumcisionQuick shoutouts to: Wahn and American Dream University!Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!Learn over 500 subjects (no tests or homework!) at The Great Courses Plus -- including Boosting Your Emotional Intelligence. Listeners to this podcast can check out a free trial at thegreatcoursesplus.com/jordan!The Adam Carolla Show is the number one daily downloaded podcast in the World! Get it on as Adam shares his thoughts on current events, relationships, airport security, specialty pizzas, politics, and anything else he can complain about -- five days a week on PodcastOne here!Sign up for Level...
142: Jon Taffer | Raising Your Bar and Crushing All Excuses
Jon Taffer (@jontaffer) is the host of acclaimed reality show Bar Rescue, host of the No Excuses podcast, and author of Don't Bullsh*t Yourself!: Crush the Excuses That Are Holding You Back.What We Discuss with Jon Taffer:The psychology behind Jon Taffer's "break them down to build them up" strategy.Are you an overachiever -- when it comes to rationalizing your excuses?Why success in business always hinges on the human factor.The benefits of hiring for personality over skill.Why Jon ruthlessly critiques his own work and how this routine ego beating has been crucial to his success.And much more...Get two months of Skillshare -- unlimited access to over 18,000 classes in design, business, technology, photography, entrepreneurship, film, writing, and more -- for 99 cents at skillshare.com/jordan!The folks at BiOptimizers understand why you're skeptical about probiotics as a way to increase your digestive and gut health. But without sharing TMI, we can confirm its patented P3-OM superstrain actually does what it's supposed to do! Curious? Go to p3om.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order and a full money-back guarantee!Sign up for Level One of Advanced Human Dynamics -- our free networking and relationship development mini course at jordanharbinger.com/levelone!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
140: Feedback Friday | How to Warm up Cold Cliques
Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:When you're the new hire on the job, how can you warm up the ice cold cliques that seem to surround you?Is there a secret technique to packing and traveling with wrinkle-free professional clothes?Even though you've rebuilt your life since spending two years in prison, you worry that people will find out about your past. How can you own it?When is it appropriate to explore medicine for depression versus continuing to make life changes?When you've got the opportunity to move your family to experience life in another country, how can you optimize your time to ensure you're living to the fullest while there?How can you improve your social skills when you feel like you don't have time to socialize?How can you express genuine support for a friend who's experienced an unfortunate setback without it seeming like you pity them?Is there an easy way to let past mistakes go and stop blaming yourself for life's big missteps?Recommendation of the Week: Death by MagicQuick shoutout to Captain Jose Gurganus!Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration (NHTSA) reminds us to let someone else drive if we have a few drinks at that holiday party -- and make sure our friends do the same. Drive sober or get pulled over!Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!Sign up for Level One of Advanced Human Dynamics -- our free networking and relationship development mini course at 
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Francis Sarmiento

I’m in inspired. Thank you Jordan & Erik. Thank you for sharing.

Jan 18th
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Allison Phillips

This was one of the few episodes I’ve disliked, so much so that I had to stop and start it a bunch of times to force myself through it. I thought the guest was pretty fake and spouting things that were either common sense, much better said by other JH guests, or ridiculous/ignorant/psychologically dangerous. I felt like that guy had never really faced any adversity and was profoundly ignorant of the societal restrictions on people who are struggling under adverse conditions and the psychological ramifications that come with that. I’m afraid for his ‘clients’ and hope they find a qualified therapist. It’s like the entire conversation was him verbally masturbating through self-promotion, and it sounds like both he and his clients come from an immense place of privilege that they’ve never really ventured outside. Please never again.

Jan 17th
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Jennifer Liao

Allison Phillips Hi Allison! Which episode are you referring to?

Jan 18th
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Ahmad Harb

Great episode ! Do you have another one on how to actually be the good friend that people can vent to ?

Jan 16th
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Jordan Harbinger

Jordan Harbinger Are you also doing the networking/relationship development drills at jordanharbinger.com/LevelOne ? What do you think of those so far?

Jan 16th
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Jordan Harbinger

Ahmad Harb We do discuss emotional support but usually on Feedback Friday episodes.

Jan 16th
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Shayne Marker

Part 1, hands down best podcast ever listened to. At 1:15 into the podcast you can't find more authentic people talking. Great job Jordan.

Jan 15th
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Jordan Harbinger

Shayne Marker Thanks Shayne! You’re going to love part 2

Jan 16th
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Mikael Dupuy

Preach! One of my fav episodes so far!!

Jan 13th
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Jordan Harbinger

Mikael Dupuy Yes. This is a great takeaway. How’s LevelOne going for you so far?

Jan 16th
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Mikael Dupuy

Jordan Harbinger Lots of nuggets but biggest takeaway was in the first minutes: We tend to focus on superficial problem A even though the root problem B is actually the underlying problem (which we don't want to address or are simply unaware off) and would fix both if solved.

Jan 16th
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Damian Rudys

Awesome interview based podcast. Jordan is honest and inquisitive asking interesting questions I personally want the answer to

Jan 10th
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Jordan Harbinger

Damian Rudys Oh right on man. Thanks for coming over to the new show. You doing LevelOne as well?

Jan 10th
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Damian Rudys

Jordan Harbinger Long time, AoC days

Jan 10th
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Marvin McTaw

Great show and Jordan does an excellent job interviewing the guests. I get so much from the episode and am looking forward to checking out the worksheets for the episodes!

Jan 9th
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Jordan Harbinger

Marvin McTaw Thanks Marvin! How’d you discover us?

Jan 10th
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Mikael Dupuy

A breathe of fresh air from you both on this one. Very important and needed episode. It is so important to uncover a meaning into what we doas there are plenty if we just look for it. A Japanese technique called ikigai fits well with what you are discussing. It basically means connecting what you are good / talented at with the lifestyle you want to live and what the world (locally / globally) needs. I do believe that using your strength in whatever job you are in is important for creating job satisfaction. Thanks a lot, will check out the other deel dives!

Jan 8th
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Jordan Harbinger

Mikael Dupuy Right on. Welcome to the show. Are you also doing the networking/relationship development drills at jordanharbinger.com/LevelOne ? What do you think of those so far?

Jan 9th
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Oren T

great super interesting episode.

Jan 6th
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Jordan Harbinger

Oren T Thanks Oren! How’d you discover the show?

Jan 6th
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Houman Hadaegh

One of my fav podcasts that delivers infinite wisdom, engaging content and definitely a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ and yeh stopped following AoC

Jan 3rd
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Jordan Harbinger

Houman Hadaegh Thank you! Glad to have you back with us brother! :) you doing LevelOne as well?

Jan 4th
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Cecilia Tesauro

this podcast is amazing. It is so hard to find intellectual stimulating content these days, and these guys certainly deliver! You make my commute worth it!! Thank you for all the topics you discuss. I can't really pick a favorite because they are all great :) Keep it up, Happy New Year!

Dec 31st
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Jordan Harbinger

Cecilia Tesauro Thanks so much Cecilia! Welcome to the show!

Jan 1st
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Allison Rose

love the take-aways in this! using the Ben Franklin technique and keep up the amazing work team!

Dec 30th
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Jordan Harbinger

Allison Rose Thanks Allison! Are you also doing the networking/relationship development drills at jordanharbinger.com/LevelOne ? What do you think of those so far?

Dec 30th
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Kevin M

Hey Jordan, level one was working well for me with reconnecting old connections. But I have fallen off the wagon. I’m going to give it a second run and this time complete it. Thanks for the accountability!

Dec 27th
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Jordan Harbinger

Kevin M Yep! It helps if you get friends to do it with you as well.

Dec 29th
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Kevin M

Very interesting and thought provoking episode, especially with the new year right around the corner. Although I felt like I got some of the points in this episode I feel like I still need to listen to this once again. I might not have gotten 100% of the picture for this deep dive. my takeaway is to accept that not finding my purpose immediately doesn’t mean its the end of the world. And with that in mind it doesn’t hurt to find meaning by going thru the everyday motions and to attempt exploring areas of interests in my life. Thanks Jordan for this one. I will post additional thoughts if any changes comes to me after my second listen!

Dec 26th
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Jordan Harbinger

Kevin M Thanks Kevin. Glad you dug this episode. How’s LevelOne going for you so far?

Dec 26th
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Xc

listened to art of charm before it sucked ass. I'm glad Jordan continues to podcast. keep it up, man!

Dec 22nd
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Jordan Harbinger

Xc Thank you! Welcome back to the REAL show brother! ;)

Dec 23rd
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Levi Andersen

Dig it! I never thought to look for multiple argument tactics in a debate. The example you gave was ‘cherry picking’ combined with ‘straw man’

Dec 22nd
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Jordan Harbinger

Levi Andersen :)

Dec 22nd
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Jason Moser

We unplug the toaster to save power. Phantom voltages. You should unplug all appliances that are not in use. It all adds up. Love the pod casts.

Dec 21st
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Jordan Harbinger

Jason Moser Thanks Jason! You doing LevelOne?

Dec 22nd
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Ishmael

I'm the same age as that guy who works on a super yacht and he's doing what I want to do. :(

Dec 14th
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Ishmael

Jordan Harbinger He doesn't.

Dec 17th
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Jordan Harbinger

Ishmael You don’t understand how someone might have different interests than yourself?

Dec 15th
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Brian Carpenter

Schwarzenegger: sleep 5 or 6 hours,

Dec 12th
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Peter Kowalski

Great podcast with amazing guests. I am learning a lot and having great time. The things I appreciate the most are actionable tips and great anecdotes that your guests are bringing. This sticks with me the most. People like you (and your team), Jordan are making a difference in this world, and this is truly what internet has been invented for. Thanks for sharing great knowledge. It is reaching very far. Greetings from Poland.

Dec 8th
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Jordan Harbinger

Peter Kowalski That’s great. Are you also doing the networking/relationship development drills at jordanharbinger.com/LevelOne ? What do you think of those so far?

Dec 10th
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Peter Kowalski

Jordan Harbinger Hi Jordan, I found the show in education section of my Castbox app. I was lucky because I stared with you 100th episode which was great and resonated with my entrepreneurial spirit. Have a great day.

Dec 10th
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