DiscoverThe Jordan Harbinger Show133: Tom Bilyeu | The Secret to Making Powerful Friends
133: Tom Bilyeu | The Secret to Making Powerful Friends

133: Tom Bilyeu | The Secret to Making Powerful Friends

Update: 2018-12-1323
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Tom Bilyeu (@TomBilyeu) interviewed Jordan on his Impact Theory Podcast earlier this year, and the episode was so well-received that Tom has been kind enough to let us share it here with you!


What Tom Discusses with Jordan:



  • Jordan's three rules for improving your relationships -- and not poisoning them.

  • How -- and why -- Jordan wound up giving tours in North Korea.

  • What Jordan did to overcome his childhood shyness and become someone who talks to people in public for a living.

  • Jordan's method for developing body language and esteem and the value of deliberate practice.

  • Jordan and Tom discuss the process of building relationships and common mistakes people make.

  • And much more...


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Todd Herman (@todd_herman) is an entrepreneur, coach, mentor, and author of The Alter Ego Effect: The Power of Secret Identities to Transform Your Life.What We Discuss with Todd Herman:How you can harness the power of your own secret identity -- and why you would ever want to.What it takes to adopt seemingly out-of-character characteristics and dominate your personal and professional life.Why taking on an alter ego isn't a "fake it 'til you make it" scheme, but channeling little-used facets of yourself you may not even realize exist.The hidden enemy forces that oppose your attempts at accomplishment and how to resist their subtle and not-so-subtle influences.How to honestly understand and come to terms with what truly motivates you -- and deal with what keeps you from following these motivations.And much more...Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!TurboTax, QuickBooks, and Mint are giant solutions that give you the power to prosper! Learn how to optimize your finances before tax time at intuit.com!UNTUCKit makes casual shirts that are designed to be worn comfortably on the outside of your waistband without looking sloppy. Go to untuckit.com or visit one of the 50 stores across the US and Canada and use promo code JORDAN at checkout for 20 percent off your first purchase!Shopping for life insurance is confusing and it takes forever -- so Policygenius made it simple. It's never been easier to buy, and rates are at a twenty year low, so stop putting it off and see what policygenius.com can do for you today!Brother INKvestment Tank all-in-one inkjet printers keep your business running by delivering up to one year of printing without the need to replace ink cartridges! Find out more by visiting ChangeTheWayYouInk.com!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
162: Cesar Millan | Seeing the World from a Dog Whisperer's Perspective
Cesar Millan (@cesarmillan) is the internationally renowned master dog trainer known best as the Dog Whisperer, founder of the Dog Psychology Center, and best-selling author of Lessons From the Pack: Stories of the Dogs Who Changed My Life.What We Discuss with Cesar Millan:How Cesar Millan went from impoverished Sinaloan kid to homeless immigrant to world-famous Dog Whisperer.What we can learn about communicating with dogs by understanding the priority of their senses compared to our own.Why the key to correcting an "untrainable" dog is usually reprogramming the human in charge.Why the rich, famous, and powerful often find animal companionship so much more grounding than time with even their closest human friends.Why human beings are the only species on the planet that will follow an unstable leader who does not represent the greater good.And much more...Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!Eight Sleep is the first bed engineered with dynamic cooling and heating that keeps you at the perfect temperature all night long. Get $100 off your purchase when you go to EightSleep.com/jordan!Brother INKvestment Tank all-in-one inkjet printers keep your business running by delivering up to one year of printing without the need to replace ink cartridges! Find out more by visiting ChangeTheWayYouInk.com!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
161: Feedback Friday | How to Support a Friend Suffering from Addiction
Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:Is your passively stoic expression (aka resting bitch face) getting you turned down for promotions? Here's some advice for turning down the Spock and cranking up the rock.How can you reduce stress and have a social life when your deadly serious job requires you to be on call 24/7/365?In trying new ways to strike up conversations without coming across as having a motive or being awkward, how do you spot the line you shouldn't cross?Are you missing out on life by not spending as much time and energy on your relationships and friendships in your 20s because you're so focused on personal development?For a year and a half, Your drug-abusing friend's been cut out of your life for ignoring the help you offered. Now he's in rehab and you don't feel much like re-engaging. Are you being selfish?You're understandably skittish about taking your dog out after he was attacked and severely injured by a bigger, unleashed dog. How can you reintroduce him to socializing, get the irresponsible owner to cover vet expenses, and prevent this from happening in the future?Is working for your significant other's brother's business -- even though you're not really qualified yet -- an opportunity or trouble waiting to happen? There are many issues at stake here, not the least of which is: what happens if you break up?Are cryptocurrency and blockchain technologies still relevant in 2019?Pro Tip: If you use AT&T, download the AT&T Call Protect app, which crowdsources spam and robocaller information.Recommendation of the Week: Inside The MossadQuick shoutout to Mitchell Smith!Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.Sign up for Six Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!
160: Deep Dive | Why Does Self-Help Make You Feel Terrible?
Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) joins us for this deep dive into why a lot of self-help makes you feel miserable by design and what you can do to improve yourself without being suckered by hucksters or succumbing to an existential meltdown.What We Discuss with Gabriel Mizrahi:Why so-called "self-help" often makes you feel worse about yourself than before you sought it.How to separate actionable self-help from motivational "hustle porn" designed to prompt emotions and elicit sales.Why those inspirational bromides you’re seeing all over Instagram might goad you into short-term action, but won't do much for you over the long haul.Striving to improve yourself is admirable and encouraged -- just don't get suckered into the myth that there's a finish line.How to consume genuine self-help without being miserable while avoiding the big business con-artistry that pervades this space.And much more...Sign up for Six Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course!Get two months of Skillshare -- unlimited access to over 18,000 classes in design, business, technology, photography, entrepreneurship, film, writing, and more -- for free at skillshare.com/harbinger!Need custom graphics, logos, or Web design? Access a community of 600,000+ designers by registering at designcrowd.com/jordan and enjoy up to $100 off with The Jordan Harbinger Show bonus offer!Tommy John has tailored, fit, and fashionable undershirts, camis, wedgie-free underwear, and more for him and her. Visit tommyjohn.com/jordan for 20 percent off your first order!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
159: Cal Newport | Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World
Cal Newport researches cutting-edge technology and writes about the impact of these innovations on society. He is the author of Deep Work, So Good They Can't Ignore You, and Digital Minimalism.What We Discuss with Cal Newport:Why focus in our modern era of endless technological distractions is the new IQ.Why your greatest competitive advantage may lie simply around decluttering and resetting that focus.The best ways to declutter the mental landscape to optimize your capacity to focus.How Henry David Thoreau's analog lessons from Walden can be applied to your 21st century digital lifestyle.How you can use technology to improve your daily life without becoming absorbed by its distractions.And much more...Sign up for Six Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course at jordanharbinger.com/course!Does your business have an Internet presence? Save up to a whopping 62% on new webhosting packages with HostGator at hostgator.com/jordan!If you're only going to take one gluten and dairy-free, keto, paleo, and vegan-friendly supplement to boost energy, balance nutrition, and aid digestion, then Athletic Greens -- with its 76 natural ingredients -- is what we recommend. The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners get 23 travel packs (valued at $79) with their first purchase at athleticgreens.com/jordan!Looking to score last-minute hotel deals? HotelTonight has access to unsold inventory from the world's greatest accommodations at a fraction of regular rates. Hit hoteltonight.com and use code JORDANH at checkout for $25 off your first booking!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
158: Feedback Friday | How to Save Someone from a Self-Help Cult
Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Jason DeFillippo (@jpdef) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week!If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now, let's dive in!On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:How can you prove that your teacher is name-grading essays without cheating on the paper?You're a veteran looking to transition back to civilian life. Here are some resources that might help (many thanks to your fellow veteran Zach Criswell for this info).When the big change you really need is a job opportunity at another company, is it unfair not to give your current employer a chance to negotiate with you to stay put?You're worried your significant other might have gotten wrapped up in an expensive self-help cult. What might you say to bring them gently back to Earth without wasting even more time and money?How do you find a lawyer who will actually get the job you need done and won't break the bank?An important network connection has offered to help you find opportunities as you're transitioning into a new field, but how can you ensure you're not biting off more than you can chew while still learning the ropes without wasting anyone's time?You're a contractor who has worked for a company that has been bought and sold three times in the past three years. How do you present this on your resume so it doesn't look like you've worked for three companies in that time?You're in your fifties and looking to open a franchise, though you don't have direct retail experience. What should you do to minimize risk so you're not burdened with debt in your retirement years should things go south?Recommendation of the Week: Conversations with a Killer: The Ted Bundy TapesQuick shoutout to Natasha Holmes!Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.Connect with Jason on Twitter at @jpdef and Instagram at @JPD, and check out his other show: Grumpy Old Geeks.Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course! Better Help offers affordable, online counseling at your convenience. If you're coping with depression, stress, anxiety, addiction, or any number of issues, you're not alone.
157: John Ruhlin | Ways to Give Gifts That Make a Big Difference
John Ruhlin (@ruhlin) is the world's leading authority in maximizing customer loyalty through radical generosity. He is the founder of Ruhlin Group, and author of Giftology: The Art and Science of Using Gifts to Cut Through the Noise, Increase Referrals, and Strengthen Retention.What We Discuss with John Ruhlin:Active loyalty versus passive loyalty.Why personalization matters.Why you should be asking "What's the most I can do here?" when investing in relationships rather than "What's the least I can get away with?"Why the timing of a gift matters.How to exercise radical generosity and take gift-giving to a whole new level.And much more...Sign up for Six-Minute Networking -- our free networking and relationship development mini course -- at jordanharbinger.com/course! Calm is the number one app for meditation and sleep! Want to explore its many benefits? Enjoy an exclusive discount of 25% off a Calm premium subscription by going to calm.com/jordan!Blinkist gives you access to 2,500+ bestselling nonfiction books, transformed into potent little packs you can listen to or read in just 15 minutes. Try Blinkist Premium free for seven days at blinkist.com/jordan!Avoid trips to the post office with Stamps.com -- The Jordan Harbinger Show listeners can get a four-week trial that includes a digital postal scale and free postage by entering code JORDAN after clicking on the radio microphone at the top of the page here!TurboTax, QuickBooks, and Mint are giant solutions that give you the power to prosper! Learn how to optimize your finances before tax time at intuit.com!Like this show? Please leave us a review here -- even one sentence helps! Consider including your Twitter handle so we can thank you personally!Full show notes and resources can be found here.
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133: Tom Bilyeu | The Secret to Making Powerful Friends

133: Tom Bilyeu | The Secret to Making Powerful Friends

jordan harbinger with jason defillippo